Say a man and a woman go on a date. They go to the movies, have some dinner, whatever. During this date this woman realizes that the man she is dating is not her type, very possible, very normal. However she then proceeds to eat the meal, watch the movie. The guy wanting to be a gentleman to his date offers to pay, 9 out of 10 times the woman will take this offer, fully knowing she doesn't like this guy. Why abuse his chivalry?