Don't presume your child is innocent and sweet. Know your child is a seeker of people, places, experiences, and things. THIS INCLUDES SEX! If a child asks what to do with the thing(s between their legs, tell them what they can do now. As they get older, prepare them. Especially girls: too many girls get their periods and think they're dying. It's not The Curse, The Gift, The Visitor, or Mother Nature's Waste. It's a period. It's coming soon.